Thankful for friends who stay.

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I woke this morning late, bad sign. I was in pain. I struggled out of bed to help the children get out of the house but things were bad. I just took some meds and went back to bed.

Before this, I messaged my doctor and let him know what was going on. Said I would give it two hours and get back to him.

This week I had planned to get some cleaning done, change the curtains, clean the windows etc. in preparation for the op next week. I wanted to do this because I really have no idea when next the house will be cleaned to this extent. I have no funds to pay a housekeeper and I’m not sure when mummy can come and help me out.

So, back to bed I went. A friend had planned to come help with the cleaning but even before she could arrive I was dozing. I sent her a message telling her which door was open and what I was planning to do.

My friend arrived and started to work. She removed all the curtains, cleaned all the windows, dusted, swept, tidied and cleaned the entire day. Also, in the midst of all this, she cooked a huge pot of soup for my family and made sure I ate some. I just stayed in bed. I only got out of bed to use the bathroom and take my meds.

She worked for 9 straight hours; from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. This is no small favor. She did it all simply because she loves me.

Living with the unpredictability of Pelvis Congestion Syndrome and Endometriosis and not knowing from day to day, sometimes minute to minute how things are going to be makes life difficult, to say the least.

Many good acquaintances have exited my life over the years. If I count my friends, I don’t make 5. That’s not a bad thing really. Its hard sometimes for me to be a good friend in all of this.

Friends who stick with me are treasured. I value this sister who was here today more than I can say. Its hard for others to be around me, especially when I am in pain. I withdraw, shut people out and sometimes push them away. I thank God for those who stay.

So sis, if you are reading this; I am ever grateful for your love and your friendship. Thank-you for being there for me today. Thank-you for cleaning the house and letting me sleep all day long. Thank -you for taking care of me. Thank-you for listening to me, always praying for me and always being there.

I love you!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Author: mypcslife

I am a Psychologist by profession, wife and mother. Living in the Caribbean island of Barbados.

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